The Unmissable Signs someone is falling for you

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” It’s always exciting when new love enters our life, but the signs can sometimes be subtle to spot. Falling for someone new is easy to do.

Expressing ourselves is a challenge. From subtle glances, to a natural flow of communication — there are so many ways we tell someone that we’re really growing to care for them.

Often, though, we rely on these signs alone and forget to express ourselves outright with words.

Has something shifted between you and the important person in your life? Do you find yourself talking on the phone for hours? Or going out of your way to help one another?

When we fall for someone, we can’t help but to put ourselves out there and extend ourselves toward them.

Noticing these signs, you have to take action or risk losing that relationship altogether.

Are you ready to move into the next phase, or is this partnership not a great fit for you? Look for these signs and follow them up with action and honesty.

Falling in love is easy to do.

We humans are social creatures, and (many of us) are also creatures who crave the love and appreciation of an intimate partner.

We want to feel special to someone; to feel as though we have one person with who we are safe to open up and be seen by.

This connection can provide us with a lot of important perspective, and it can also offer a sense of security in an increasingly insecure place.

Falling in love is easy to do. But can you truly spot the signs of a friendship that’s morphing into more? We don’t always have the courage to tell someone outright how we feel.

We give ourselves away though, with our longing to know more and our inability to tear ourselves away from a seemingly magnetic presence.

If someone in your life has fallen for you, you need to stop running from the truth.

Whether you plan on building a relationship or maintaining the friendship you share, you’ve got to do some self-exploration and take some committed action.

By leaving yourselves in limbo, you’ll find the foundations of your current relationship crumbling in awkwardness and tension. You both have to embrace your feelings honestly, then bring them to the surface with one another candidly.

Signs they’re starting to fall for you

Have you started to suspect that someone close to you is beginning to fall in love (or lust)? Try as we might, it’s not always possible to hide the way we feel. If you’re wondering whether a friend in your life is falling for you, look for these subtle signs and embrace them for what they are.

Seeking advice

Does a close friend in your life always come to you for advice? When things get tough, are you the first person they run to for comfort? This is one of the most common signs of someone who is harboring feelings for you.

When we feel drawn to someone or comfortable with them, their perspective becomes valuable to us and their presence comforting. So, when challenges come our way, we have a tendency to run to them.

Needing to know more

Though it’s a hard truth to swallow for some, we don’t seek to truly know people we don’t care about. To put it simply, we don’t ask questions or seek to know more about people who aren’t important to us.

If your friend or close coworker has begun asking you a lot of questions or really working hard to get to know you, then it could be a sign that they’re looking for something more.

Opening up effortlessly

Do you have someone in your life who you can always be open with? Likewise, is there someone in your close social circle who goes out of their way to open up their life to you? Maybe they introduce you to their other friend groups and even their family.

They always share what they’re thinking with you and make it clear that — when it comes to their life — you’re always welcome beside them.

Going out of the way

When it comes to the hardships you face in life, who is always there for you? Are there familiar faces who always show up and show out when you need them most?

Do they go out of the way to help you, or support you when you’re struggling with any facet of your life? This is a classic sign that someone is harboring feelings for you that run deep.

It’s not easy to be there for someone all the time, but it’s what we do when we care for someone authentically.

Deep communication

Every relationship we have thrives or dies on the back of the communication it cultivates. Deep conversations are important. Being able to open up about things like our deepest dreams and desires is important.

If you and a special someone in your life have this deep and effortless communication — pay attention. 

Are you the first person they want to share news with ? Do they go out of their way to talk to you as much as they can ?

Natural chemistry

So many of us undervalue the importance of natural chemistry, and overlook it in the people closest to us. This chemistry occurs when we just fit right in with someone.

We might share the same similarities, but we also share differences that complement one another. This can vary across things like what we want from our careers, but it can extend all the way through to sexual compatibility as well.

Little points of contact

Take a second to think about the last time you hung out with someone who really cared for you? Did they go out of their way to touch you a lot? Even in a group setting? Did they make sure they were right by your side or always near enough to be a part of your conversation?

These little points of contact can also be seen as signals. Signals that they want to know more about you, and signals that there could be more lurking just beneath the surface.

Empathy comes standard

Empathy is so important in our friendships and in our intimate relationships too. Without understanding one another and sympathizing with one another, it’s impossible to get on the same page.

Is there someone in your life who is always there with a shoulder to cry on? Do they always seem to understand where you’re coming from, or work to put themselves in your shoes? Embrace this empathy and see it for what it is: the sign of someone who wants more of you in their life. (…) “

Source : https://medium.com/lady-vivra/the-unmissable-signs-someone-is-falling-for-you-92596417ec38