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What a Healthy Relationship looks like
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” In order to be able to love & receive love, you have to love yourself first.
Loving yourself in a sense that you are independent.
You know how to cheer yourself up, look after yourself, explore your hobbies & interests, spend time with your own circle of friends.
Often times, you see someone getting lost in their relationship.
Sure, they are happy with their partner – but they’ve lost their friends & their entire world revolves around their partner.
When this happens, you have an imbalance in a relationship.
To be in any sort of relationship where you do not express yourself, simply to keep the peace, is a relationship ruled by one person & will never be balanced or healthy.
It’s ok to ask partners for favors. However, it’s another thing to almost expect them to serve you all the time.
Healthy relationships CHOOSE to communicate with kindness even in the most difficult times. ”
Love

You’re not Really in Love with them –
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” We’ve been sold a lot of romantic visions of love, & while this might be the way things play out for some people — it’s not as common as we like to think.
Relationships are hard. Building a life with someone else is complicated.
Even when you think you’ve found the right person, the future doesn’t always play out that way.
Even when you believe in your heart that you love someone, you may not actually be in love with them.
Part of growing up is learning to question your emotions.
Part of building better, stronger relationships requires us to be more honest with ourselves & the people we care for.
Loving someone isn’t the same as being in love, even if it’s still valuable.
Why settle for fleeting feelings & self-centered conflict when we could have something that lasts the inevitable test of time ?
All relationships require effort, but they shouldn’t require total exhaustion or a depletion of self.
The relationship that requires a constant struggle is not one based on love.
It’s one based on forced standards & false perceptions. ”