You’re not Really in Love with them –0 (0)
” We’ve been sold a lot of romantic visions of love, & while this might be the way things play out for some people — it’s not as common as we like to think.
Relationships are hard. Building a life with someone else is complicated.
Even when you think you’ve found the right person, the future doesn’t always play out that way.
Even when you believe in your heart that you love someone, you may not actually be in love with them.
Part of growing up is learning to question your emotions.
Part of building better, stronger relationships requires us to be more honest with ourselves & the people we care for.
Loving someone isn’t the same as being in love, even if it’s still valuable.
Why settle for fleeting feelings & self-centered conflict when we could have something that lasts the inevitable test of time ?
All relationships require effort, but they shouldn’t require total exhaustion or a depletion of self.
The relationship that requires a constant struggle is not one based on love.
It’s one based on forced standards & false perceptions. ”
Relationships are hard. Building a life with someone else is complicated.
Even when you think you’ve found the right person, the future doesn’t always play out that way.
Even when you believe in your heart that you love someone, you may not actually be in love with them.
Part of growing up is learning to question your emotions.
Part of building better, stronger relationships requires us to be more honest with ourselves & the people we care for.
Loving someone isn’t the same as being in love, even if it’s still valuable.
Why settle for fleeting feelings & self-centered conflict when we could have something that lasts the inevitable test of time ?
All relationships require effort, but they shouldn’t require total exhaustion or a depletion of self.
The relationship that requires a constant struggle is not one based on love.
It’s one based on forced standards & false perceptions. ”